Is AI Pulling Us Away From Real Life—or Leading Us Back?
I thought AI was pulling me away from real life. Then I used it as a coach, and it led me straight back.
The Meditation That Finally Worked for Me
Journaling, puzzles, and hunting shark teeth gave me everything the meditation books promised. Then something surprising happened when I sat back down to try the real thing.
Talk Some Nonsense Into Me
For readers who know me only from my novel and other writing, there’s another side of my life: I run an information technology firm that helps multibillion-dollar organizations create better software.
If you’ve ever fought with a website that wouldn’t work or a mobile app that made you want to hurl your phone across the
There’s Always Blue Sky Above the Clouds
Push the throttle forward, and you pop out of the gray into blinding white and endless blue. Pilots get that reminder often. The rest of us need it too.
The Best Time and Beaches to Find Shark Teeth
My family finds over a thousand shark teeth in a single beach week. Here's when we look, where we look, and the pilot's trick that made me better at it.
What Fills Your World?
I sometimes envy people who travel the world with everything they own slung over their shoulders in a backpack. How carefree must it be to…
A Course in Nature
From the deck of our oceanfront rental, I watched my boys play in the sand. “Play” may be the wrong word. It looked more like work to me. Shovels and elbows moving in...
Watch the Moments
Watch the pennies and the dollars will take care of themselves.
My friend’s dad used to say that often. It sounds old-fashioned in this day and age. Most people used to…
A Magical Power
Hundreds of years ago, remote communication on earth didn’t extend beyond smoke signals, drums in the night, or the written and spoken word traveling vast distances by ship, horse, or the lonely runner. If you had lived…
How to Foster Peace and Limit Stress
When I started training for my pilot license, I was amazed at how I felt after a flight ended. If I ever lifted off from...
Remember What You Came Here to Do
I’m a sucker for a distraction. Too often I’ll walk into my home office with a specific purpose in mind only to...
Get Out of Your Head
“Stop staring at the instrument panel,” my flight instructor said, finger pointing to the blue stretch of sky beyond the windshield. “Everything that makes flying worth it is...
Let Nature Spill In
Our upstairs air conditioner stopped working one Friday evening in late May. I almost called the repair guy but held off. Waiting until Monday meant…
An Empty Space
I never thought about the old man until I’d see him on my way home. If the weather was good, he’d be there, sitting on his porch at the intersection of…
Book Recommendation: "Lessons from the Monk I Married"
I’ve been running full steam over the last six months with a new business but finally found some time to…
Eyes High: A Simple Mood Lifter
Whenever I lift my eyes toward the sky, my mood improves. I noticed this a long time ago and always assumed my fondness of the sky triggered it, my inner kid spellbound by…
Live Your Future Now
If you suddenly found yourself with enough money so you no longer had to work, what would you do with your time? When I ask that question to a variety of people, most answers are not…
Life On The Outside
Who knows why most pilots felt the urge to learn to fly? Perhaps some grew tired of staring at cloud bellies and wanted to see their tops. Maybe others vowed to…
Time Machine Do Over
A week ago Friday I found myself at an urgent care facility with my 8-year-old, Cort. Less than 20 minutes before, we’d been at the ballpark waiting for…